How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Making more friends is a goal.

Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If the Red Pill is supposed to be so bad, why are so many young men buying into it? What about Red Pill makes it appealing to them?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do people think Mirko is boring in My Hero Academia?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How do you write a letter to your uncle who sent you money for your birthday outfit?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What specific economic and social impacts would result if all climate change policies and regulations were immediately repealed worldwide?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Is it appropriate for parents to discipline their child in public if the child is being rude, disrespectful, and unruly towards them? Why or why not?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Procrastinates a lot.

To those people in the world who have access to universal healthcare, what experiences could you share with Americans in order for us to understand how it affects your life (positively or negatively)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

What are some important works of Marcel Proust (novelist)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you believe in God, do you think God can save you from cancer?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What is the most inappropriate experience you have had with a friend's daughter?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do you think a lot of sociopaths' parents kill themselves for having brought such disgusting evil into the world? How much shame and disgust must they carry?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.